“Your attitude should be the kind that was shown us by Jesus Christ.” (Philippians 2:5 TLB)
 If you  want to succeed in life, you must learn how to master your moods. When you have emotion that isn’t getting you where you want to go,  you’ve got two options: You either change it, or you channel it.
 Sometimes you need to change what you’re feeling.
 Some  emotions are so destructive, so damaging, so hurtful, so non-effective, the only thing you can do is change it. You’ve got to change what  you’re feeling. 
 Philippians 2:5 says, “Your attitude should be the kind that was shown us by Jesus Christ”  (TLB).
 Your attitude includes your emotions, so what you’re feeling should be the same as that of Jesus. You need to ask yourself,  “How would Jesus feel in this situation? Would Jesus get irritated with this waitress? No. Would Jesus yell at that person? No. Would Jesus be  up all night, wringing his hands and worrying that it isn’t going to work out? No. Would Jesus be fearful? No.”
 Then, you instantly  dismiss any feeling that doesn’t make you more like Jesus. If Jesus wouldn’t respond to your wife with that emotion, then you  shouldn’t, either. You drop that attitude, and you figure out what Jesus would do instead. 
 Sometimes you need to channel what  you’re feeling.
 When my son, Matthew, died, I entered into the deepest possible grief you can imagine. But my wife and I decided from the  first moment that we were going to channel that grief for good and use our pain to help other people. That’s one of the reasons we host the  annual conference on mental illness at Saddleback Church. I’m not about to waste a hurt I go through. I’m going to use it for good.
  Your greatest ministry will not come out of your strengths and successes. Your greatest ministry could come out of your deepest pain.
 What  pain in your life are you using for good? If you have been in so much pain you didn’t even want to talk about it, then you need to learn to  manage your emotions. You need to name the emotion, challenge it, and channel it if you’re not going to change it. Then, you use it for good.  
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 Talk It Over
  - Why do you think it’s sometimes easier to feel the emotions we want to feel  instead of what we know Jesus would feel in that setting?
  - What do you need to do to give yourself time to ask these questions in any  situation?
  - What pain in your life can you use to help other people?
  
   
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